We are wired to survive, and as a species we are to reproduce. So most of our functions and thoughts are related to that, thus a lot of our energy is put into sex/relationships (for lack of better words). So if you aren't good at relationships, you're going to do either 2 things: give up and usually not be very fufilled, or put more energy into it and work harder.
So let's go with option 2. That would be most of us. Let's assuming to qualify for #2, you don't need to try and learn, you can just suck and don't get better, but you keep at it. Now a greater portion of your time and energy is devoted to sex/relationships. Now imagine if you got that area handled. You had no problems with or without sex/relationships and you were an ace.
Guess what? All that time and energy you were putting into it, has greatly decreased (theoreticly let's say you know all you want to know). You now have that area in your life mastered and have all this extra time and energy to do other things! I think this is a very important thing.
It's not all about getting laid, but getting that area of your life under control so you can enjoy it and spend more time doing things you love instead of worring about it.
Just my $0.02 |