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Old 07-24-2008, 04:32 PM   #4 (permalink)
Remiel
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Originally Posted by Jarrod View Post
I'm for both methods. Sometimes it is necessary to stand up for yourself, sometimes it is better to pass on by.

Either way you should not let the external world effect you (the whole taking 100% responsibility for yourself).

I find that if I am clear of thoughts and emotions and tend to sort of 'know' how I should act.
Agreed. There are times where I let it pass because I realize I am just being a mirror for them. Actually I find that often times when they say that I'm doing certain things for certain reasons that they usually aren't my reasons. In fact I just see it as another aspect of the mirror.

Other times I'll stand up for myself and hold them accountable. It really depends on the situation.
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