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Originally Posted by Markus74  You're simply coping out on the hard parts. You're ignoring the logical consequences of thinking your theories trough. |
I'm not copping out or ignoring logical consequences. I'm refusing to fall into the rhetorical trap of arguing a hypothetical.
Any position I might take on the hypothetical would be based on my thoughts of what makes up that situation. You, however, likely have very different thoughts about what makes up the hypothetical situation. So without getting more specific we are unable to rationally discuss the situation.
Also, nothing about understanding the LoA makes me an expert in the field. My understanding is limited to my experience and I do not pretend to know everything. I'm still on my journey and learning as I go.
I'm willing to hazard a guess at the broader question, "do victims attract their victimizers?" I would say that in the vast majority of cases they do not. Some traumatic events may occur due to a tragic confluence of the things each party is trying to attract. Attracting a strong person that will not allow others to harm you, for example, may not preclude that strong person from harming you directly.