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Old 07-24-2008, 01:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Honeywith4bees View Post
One thing that I have found to be so useful is the phrase, "How is my belief effecting other people in my life". Since part of my life's mission is to "radiate happiness and love" to the people I care about (to start with), it has been very useful for me to remind myself that I am not only hurting myself by my limiting beliefs, but I am hurting others as well.
One thing that blew me out of the water was how the thing *I* was most afraid of, the limiting belief that I had, is what I kept recreating and recreating in the lives of those close to me. If I believe "I'm not here", I believe my presence doesn't matter, so I go away easily, or I'll act as if I'm invisible, as if my actions didn't have consequences. In doing that, I'm creating "I'm not here" for whomever I'm interacting with. "Wow - she totally seemed not to hear what I was saying! I'm not having an impact. I'm not here!" Not that clear and concise, but you get what I mean.

If I'm believing "I'm all alone", I won't reach out to others... leaving them thinking, "I'm all alone" where I'm concerned.

It's crazy!! I never saw that before the work I did with Angela.

Seeker, I am so proud of you for stepping up and doing this! It's deep work, and not easy. I know others are benefiting from your sharing it, as well. You are here, and you're not alone!
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