I wrote about something similar in a blog entry here:
Can You Use Law of Attraction to Attract a Specific Person Into Your Life?
When you're crafting an intention related to love and another person you don't wnat to ask the universe to make the other person love you. Instead you want to simply say, "I love so and so and I hope she feels it. How she reciprocates is up to her." Or something to that effect.
Asking to be in a state of love is not wrong. Asking someone else to be in a state of love towards you is pushing the line. Hoping someone else is in a state of love for you is fine.