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Originally Posted by Swannie  Ohh :-( Why so black and white?!
If the reason for the breakup is fear - of commitment, of the future?
Misplaced sentiments - that by breaking up you are protecting the other person's best interests, that you are not good enough for the person you are seeing?
These things can be changed through open communication, and the reason removed.
Time and space. That says to me, "there are things that I can't think about with you around, because of the emotions being around you creates". Being in an all together different place makes disconnecting from the emotions and listening to rational though easier. You'd better have your head together for when she gets back, because there will need to be a serious conversation. |
It's good to hear something positive about the situation... she's not some monster that remembers everything and is going to cheat on me the moment I forget to kiss her goodnite or whatever. Smells like some guys have been burned by some lousy girls. This post has kinda gotten off topic and pretty extreme too. Anyway, thx, Swan.