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Originally Posted by AndreiR First, when you break up with someone, or someone breaks up with you (and I suppose that SHE broke up with you here, because she said that she needed her space), the reason for the breakup remains. |
Ohh :-( Why so black and white?!
If the reason for the breakup is fear - of commitment, of the future?
Misplaced sentiments - that by breaking up you are protecting the other person's best interests, that you are not good enough for the person you are seeing?
These things can be changed through open communication, and the reason removed.
Time and space. That says to me, "there are things that I can't think about with you around, because of the emotions being around you creates". Being in an all together different place makes disconnecting from the emotions and listening to rational though easier. You'd better have your head together for when she gets back, because there will need to be a serious conversation.