Yes you are absolutely right, I was told just recently that he filed for a divorce because of me, but initially he said he wasn't happy with his situation at home. Since then, his wife has confronted me and I denied it,all of a sudden he is acting very distant, I don't know what I should do my gut tells me to just back off, but my heart and my flesh is saying different. Please help me with some sound advice without judging if you can I really need help with this....First of all, we have been dating for over 6 months, I work with this guy and attend church with him too, I also have a position in the church and am starting to feel like I am doing something wrong, his wife threatened me with a weapon and I have tried to stay humble through all of this, when we first got together, he was saying how unhappy he was and that he had already filed for a divorce, it is supposed to be final in August, he says he is still in love with me and that nothing has changed but, last week when she came home from where-ever, he stayed home and neglected to call me for two days, then he showed up with her at church by her side like a couple again, it really hurt me to see that with all he has promised me, and I have gotten attached because he spent the night almost every night for several weeks at a time, now things seem different and I feel like this is my chance to stop this infidelity while he has not showed his face in a few days, I talked to him today and he said he wanted to see me but never showed up, i don't want to hurt anyone if there is a chance for them to reconcile, but I don't want to give up this relationship if he is the right one for me....
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