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Originally Posted by rho  Hey everyone, I'm a first-time thread starter, long time lurker. I'll try to make this as succinct as possible.
I have an issue with girls. I'm 27, male, and I've never had a girlfriend. It's not that I haven't wanted to. I was very shy in my teenage years and early twenties, and only recently have I become somewhat outgoing. |
I can tell you I was in the same boat when I was younger. What I did was go out with a buddy or two and they would pick out a girl and bet me I couldn't get her number. The more we did this, the better I got. Women love humor. Don't take it seriously if you don't come across. Just keep trying. After a while I got so good it was unbelievable. One of my favorite and easiest ways to get a woman's attention was to look at a woman until I caught her eye, then I'd look back and stick my tongue out. Makes them laugh every time. Seriously... it's just desensitization - getting yourself comfortable with talking and not worrying about how you come across.