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Originally Posted by ReallyGoodIdeas If you didn't have huge trauma in your childhood, you probably don't need to do the EFT, and your revisionism technique will work fine! If you are using the revisionism to deny that nasty things DID occur, it probably is self-deceit and unhealthy. BUt you know best what's happening there! |
Cheers,
A bit of clarification needed. The best thing is that I don't actually try to deny anything - I just concentrate on the better things, even if they were forgotten.
Actually, I have noticed that negative thinking is my way of letting go of things, pushing them back and breaking attachments so that I have a freedom to move forward. But I seem to have forgotten the necessary correction - after the distance has been achieved, I will have to undo the negative thoughts as they start to hinder me, causing grief and mental poisoning. This is also when revisionism will come handy (actually, I should call it re-revisionism then.

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