Things are more robust than they might seem at first. Once you've actually manifested something there's usually enough energy and momentum behind it that it would require an energy exponentially stronger to break your desired reality apart. I think time is on your side. This isn't going to somehow undo all the good things you've created with her up to this point. At most it's making small ripples in the water. This is only a concern if you see signs that the relationship is heading in a bad direction or you become so obsessed with your fears that you begin to push it in that direction by your own efforts.
You're fortunate that real love is the hardest thing to break. Of course, you don't know that it's true love... That's one of the reasons you might want to mention your dreams to her. It might even be a good test. After all, your true soul mate would be willing to hear about your concerns and help you deal with them, even if they made her uncomfortable. Right? I'm not sure you specified that, but it would still give you an idea of how strong the bond currently is, which will give you a much better picture of how things will unfold. There's also the added benefit that two people in a relationship focusing in the same direction will strengthen the bond exponentially.
In other words, if you want to alleviate your doubts about whether or not she's your soul mate, think about what you expect from your soul mate and see if she lives up to it. If she does you've got nothing to worry about. If she doesn't you've got some thinking to do.
There are two things I want to emphasize. The first is, "Know Thyself." That involves knowing what you want from your soul mate but more than anything it means that you've got to know the source of your doubts. It isn't that hard to figure this out. When you do, take note of it. It'll be useful when you have to deal with doubts later on. (Remember, even life with your soul mate isn't always going to be a bed of roses. The best kind of romance will challenge you to grow in ways you never would otherwise.)
The second thing is... Huh. I lost my train of thought. Everything that's coming to mind is a repeat of previous paragraphs. You know, I think the post is just fine as it is so I'll leave it like this unless you need more help or I remember what I was thinking before I forgot. Forgot what? If I knew I'd tell you.
Which forum is this again?
Last edited by Eric Revelin; 07-21-2008 at 09:07 PM.