Did y'all happen to see this post:
What I Learned From Going Bankrupt in My 20s That Proves to Be Immensely Valuable in
I'm beginning to think that while we (yeah, I do this too, BIG TIME) are thinking, opportunities are coming at us from every direction, but we're too immersed in trying to figure it out to even see them -- much less take them and run.
I think when you stop trying to figure it all out and just go with the flow, the "how" will become apparent. For those of us who like neat little explanations and rules to follow and an assured outcome for a specific course of action it's freakin' scary.
So my advice is: let go and get out of your head (said to myself as well).