Oh and Angela, I appreciate what you're trying to do here.
Perhaps as you suggest it's my entire way of looking at this that needs to change, not just making what I'd call "micro" changes within a situation (when you really need to make "macro" changes to the system itself).
If considering different perspectives is helpful, I'm all for it. I know it can be very enlightening (it's just difficult to escape your own perspective; a case of "hiding in plain sight, it defy description". Hence the usefulness of other people, particularly people who have a perspective that has proven highly effective, consistently, holistically).
Postscript
And yes, this is definitely an area where I am weak, relatively speaking. My own perspective escapes me. Practically everything is is workable, largely because it doesn't have constraints such as time and money tied onto it. I swear, if the activity strengthens me, I'll share the solution to this if only because nobody else has done it in a "yep, this solution is all you need" way, kind of like Steve's book will probably be to navigating consciousness.
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