I've voted last option. Simply learning... and try hard to be better. There's an old saying like "But I'm this way!"... you can change, it's not easy, but if you think you need it, of if the times get tough and force you, you will change. The own brain can be "constructed" for a person. We are responsibles of how we are.
And learning include books... but not just books, you can learn through a lot of ways, well, no matter what you do, you learn (like the Alanis Morrissette song).
And I'd like to add that examples are the best way for me to learn. I mean people. I sometimes know someone that has a trait in his/her personality I dig. I try to learn from that person, then.
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