It's possible that you're dealing with unconscious fears. If this woman is really your soulmate then that has to be the case. If she isn't then the dreams are alerting you before you get in too deep, which is something to be thankful for. It's hard when a relationship falls apart, especially when it's going wonderfully. However, if it's going to fail it's best that it happens early. It saves you a lot of time and heartache in the long run.
I'm saying that to emphasize this: no matter what happens you're gonna be alright. If you can find one woman you can always find another. If those visions are prophetic then take note of what leads up to the break up, learn from it and apply that knowledge in your next relationship. On the other hand, if you're aware that this is a possible future these visions may be exactly what you need to prevent it. Either way try to look at these dreams as a gift. If nothing else they are giving you an opportunity to explore and overcome latent fears.
Do some deep breathing exercises to calm your mind and body. Become centered. Turn your focus entirely toward something else for a while then start asking yourself some questions and take note of your emotional responses. "Has she given any indication that she would leave me?" "Am I insecure?" "Do I think I'm not good enough for her?" "Do I believe that true, lasting love is possible?" That may not yield the answers, but the principle behind this method is infallible: bypass your conscious thoughts and feelings and you'll be honest with yourself. You'll tell yourself everything you want to know when you make an effort to listen. Maybe you can do it through meditation, maybe you should try sitting down and allowing your thoughts to flow onto a piece of paper without interruption, maybe you just need to take a walk. I don't know if you've already done this, but you might also benefit from talking to her about the dreams you're having. If anyone can put your mind at ease through their words or actions, it's her.
The best advice I can give you is don't panic. Whatever you do, stay calm, centered, and rational about this. The amount of negativity you're creating won't be significant unless you obsess over the dreams and worry about what they might indicate. Remember that even the best prophecies only show probable futures. It's your thoughts and actions in the here and now that determine whether or not what you see will ever come to pass.
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