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well not relationship feedback, I'm kinda exhausted by dating and taking break from that; and not career feedback- I've received that, and appreciate its accuracy, but I don't care much about my current job, and I'm trying to figure out what I do want in a more general sense- anyway, to quote from some recent emails.....
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If you don't know what kind of feedback you want you probably won't get good feedback.
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I have more distant friends, but often I don't feel they know me well enough or we have basically different views of the world and I know I wouldn't respect their judgements enough, would probably argue with them or dismiss them.
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If you ask for feedback and you argue with the other person you miss the point of feedback.
However the other person perceives you, he/she is right with her perception.
Even if you don't agree it's still important that you have characteristics that let other people perceive you in a certain way.
For that reason you should thank everyone for good honest feedback. Receiving feedback doesn't have something to do with justifing yourself.
Being bad at receiving feedback could be a reason that your friend doens't want to give you feedback.