Hi Kay! Thanks for joining!
Sorry to hear about your Mom. {Hugs}
I'm not sure how much of Erin's writing you have browsed through, but it might help to put some things in
perspective. Especially about where your Mum is now.
Also, regarding your family relationships, it sounds like you and your husband picked up a lot of slack for people who haven't been able to cope well. Nothing wrong with that, good job.