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Old 07-19-2008, 11:16 PM
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Originally Posted by Monique7nuns View Post
No word from "Dan" about pictures.
No job offers after any of the recent job interviews.
The people to whom I offered to do a free website for declined.
A personal loan is half of what I was originally offered and it isn't enough. I'm coming up way short again.
The person who expressed their moral support a few weeks ago reneged and I'm back on their 'looser' list.
It's supposed to happen precisely this way.

The universe is testing you to see if you're serious and committed. Are you going to follow a new path or stick with the old one? Will you choose comfort or courage?

You're in charge of what you create. Will you create something new or settle for what you're already getting?

The universe gave you your alpha reflection. It's up to you to take action now... not to wait around for something to happen. No one is coming to save you. If you expect to fail, you most certainly will.

The question is whether you're ready to lift yourself up to a new level. If you can't demonstrate that you're ready to do that -- regardless of external circumstances -- you won't be capable of holding onto any of those new gains either.

To me your words signal resignation and failure, not excitement and commitment. If you keep doing this, new opportunities won't present themselves. You're broadcasting that you aren't ready for that kind of change yet. People who are ready to change simply don't communicate the way you do.

If you seriously want a new direction, prove it.
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