You could always take 100% responsibility for what you post. Seriously. It'll do more for your personal development than you think.
Not only has it made me more honest, but it makes me much more aware that the aspects of your life that you think you need to hide really aren't a big issue at all.
I guess I don't try to solve people problems on the forums, but then, I'd rather approach the person themselves about the problem or somehow work that particular relationship out of my life. It's not always black and white, but usually things are simpler than they seem. Our thinking about them just makes them into big scary monsters that we must avoid at all costs (which doesn't really help much).
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