 Someone told my husband I was here
I sincerely apologise if this is in the wrong thread category. The problem seems a social one to me...
A while back, I started a thread about relationship problems I had been experiencing. Yesterday, my husband received an email from someone named mariet van der heide, who neither I nor he knows, at his work email, containing a link to said thread with the question whether he knew about this. She felt he should know...
I am disturbed by this... How can someone make a connection from my username to my private person to my husband to his email adress? Why would someone we do not know go to the trouble of taking those steps? Is this a common thing?
And no, our relationship has not been negatively impacted. Most of what is in the thread has already been said, I think. We are in calmer waters now. But at the time, not all I told in the thread had been spoken between us. Only the timing made this a small bump instead of a huge one.
I feel very great hesitation to get up close and personal in an online forum again... A shame, because the responses I got were friendly, encouraging and helpful.
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