Well, it seems to me you're already (correctly according to your post) getting the clingy vibe from him after only being out once. He's told you he's laid back to but his actions aren't supporting that, so my guess is that he was just telling you what you want to hear. If you really want to give the guy a chance, you need to let him know that you have issues with men that are too needy. He'll either back off some and then you can proceed to...to what? Pursue a serious relationship? Is that what you want? Or he won't and you'll know then to break it off. Either way, enjoy the ride!
My guess is that your instincts are right, that he is much more interested in you than you are in him, and that his clingyness (is that a real word?) is going to end up being a deal breaker.
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