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Originally Posted by Alexjstrandberg
yeah, the same if I got upset or angry at anything mr_A said it would have to do with something that is unbalanced inside of me. I have thought of an alternate view and have lived an alternate view from that of which I hold today.
Mr_A, you seem upset? what you say or do if you met me in person? I'm curious
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Look I can get angry and do get angry, but most of the time I channel it through humour, passion, conviction, reason. I believe anger comes when you fail to express your view and loose control. I believe anger is just another emotion of many emotions between love and fear. I know what one person would perceive as anger I would perceive as calm or normal, and what I would perceive as anger someone else would perceive it as an unholy rage. Meaning it’s subjective to the individual
You talk about unbalance but I guarantee you that my balance and your balance are not the same. You’re judging people according to your balancing system, and if anyone doesn’t fit into your structure, you label them as unbalanced and move on.
This resolves nothing and if you keep dismissing people’s anger as their problem and fail to learn how to empathise and understand people’s anger, you will stun your personal growth.