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Originally Posted by Angela  Hey there. You might want to try on a new perspective for size. Try letting go of what you want the girl of your dreams to provide for you, like accepting, liking, and being interested in you, and generate a focus of what value you will provide for the girl of your dreams. Get a great big sense of the loving, generous, fun, affectionate leader-teacher-protector-provider you want to BE in a relationship. Be the things you want to *get* in a relationship.
I think you'll find you'll become a magnet for the kind of women you want to attract, and feel powerful in generating satisfying and fulfilling relationship with them. You'll also be able to recognize early the women with whom it won't work and not waste your time or hers. |
ah ha. Thanks for the output Angela. I see in having these beliefs it will take some integrity in not changing them. I think this is where I was going wrong as I was changing my values to be able to make something work that's doomed in the first place. Well I'll give it a try and do my best to stick to what I believe in. Thanks again.
EDIT: I've found that balance helps alot. Save yourself from being drained out too much.