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Old 07-17-2008, 11:23 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by moriez View Post
@The Cloud: You are basically saying accept the situation as it is. I totally agree with that is the first step. I wouldnt even have that much of a problem with not being able to speak well in a group. The thing is that I cannot maintain being me. I get clouded and start feeling small and that is exactly what I want to avoid. Feeling ok with my so called short comings. Maybe I dont accept it fully and end up in the spiral down. What do you think?
Does this occur with all social interactions? Are you ever yourself with close friends or family?

I know I can be myself and express my ideas without the fear of looking stupid with my family and other close friends.

Maybe try to identify what's different between the two situations. Is there a difference?
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