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I know I should not let the past define my future, but there it is.
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That why I asked what's there?
If you actually believe the thing {aspiring_to_clarity} wrote and approach the situation like that, you probably wouldn't be marked as troublemaker.
If you on the other hand frame the issue in your mind as conflict the way you did in the opening post, maybe because of your scars, other people pick up on the way you see the situation.
That could lead to trouble.