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Originally Posted by uberinquisitive  Don't expect the situation to change.
The marriages that work, the husband is the main person who deals with the parents. The husband is the negotiator and puts up very strong boundaries, always putting his wife first. The wife either doesn't get involved, or ironically, plays mediator.
Your fiancé must ALWAYS put you as his #1 priority. Over his family. He must be the person who confronts his parents and tells them "yes" or "no." He has to be the active person. He has to shield YOU from them.
Please keep this in mind as you move forward. |
I couldn't agree more with this. You can't make them love you.