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Originally Posted by coLLege kid07  For me right now I have a mindset where I want a girl to accept me for who I truly am. I want her to genuinely like me and want her to want to spend time with me (or some interest in me).
Well now I think my beliefs are all fine and dandy, but I feel this mindset might have me waiting around and looking for the perfect' girl. |
Hey there. You might want to try on a new perspective for size. Try letting go of what you want the girl of your dreams to provide for you, like accepting, liking, and being interested in you, and generate a focus of what value you will provide for the girl of your dreams. Get a great big sense of the loving, generous, fun, affectionate leader-teacher-protector-provider you want to BE in a relationship. Be the things you want to *get* in a relationship.
I think you'll find you'll become a magnet for the kind of women you want to attract, and feel powerful in generating satisfying and fulfilling relationship with them. You'll also be able to recognize early the women with whom it
won't work and not waste your time or hers.