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Originally Posted by Rose of Cairo 
He didn't put any blame on me, he said it's his problem and he will handle it alone. However, he was being emotionally very hard and closed off, like "I'm strong, I'll manage". Nothing wrong with being strong, but this being strong was directed against me in some way. He was distrustful and defensive but doing as if everything was fine. I even felt some resentment on his side, and a big distance. I tried to create closeness but failed.
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I get the same way when I feel "left out", (It's part of my feeling of worthlessness), the only way I know how to get over that feeling of being left out is to create a wall between me and the person who I want to be with. If I can distance myself emotionally from that person, than I can be Strong, and not Hurt. It's not good, it causes pain and harm to the other person, in your case, you. Have you let K now that his actions are causing you pain? Perhaps if he could see the effect his actions are having on you, he would be open to trying to resolve them in another way. Good luck and lots of love,