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Originally Posted by coLLege kid07  For me right now I have a mindset where I want a girl to accept me for who I truly am. I want her to genuinely like me and want her to want to spend time with me (or some interest in me). |
If would say you should have the 'opposite' mindset: "I genuinely like myself, and I don't need anybody else to make me happy".
This mindset will tend to attract people that feel the same, be they friends or lovers.