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coLLege kid07 · 07-17-2008, 05:59 AM

Alright, so I have a question for you romantics out there. What kind of mindset do you have in terms of attracting a date, or in my case a girlfriend?

For me right now I have a mindset where I want a girl to accept me for who I truly am. I want her to genuinely like me and want her to want to spend time with me (or some interest in me).

Well now I think my beliefs are all fine and dandy, but I feel this mindset might have me waiting around and looking for the perfect' girl. We of course know that this isn't true. Also I feel that it may be unrealistic to wait around. What do you think? What are you beliefs in this area? And if you currently have a girlfriend/boyfriend how'd you do it lol?

07-17-2008, 05:59 AM	#1 (permalink)
coLLege kid07 Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Michigan Posts: 520	Romantic Relationships Alright, so I have a question for you romantics out there. What kind of mindset do you have in terms of attracting a date, or in my case a girlfriend? For me right now I have a mindset where I want a girl to accept me for who I truly am. I want her to genuinely like me and want her to want to spend time with me (or some interest in me). Well now I think my beliefs are all fine and dandy, but I feel this mindset might have me waiting around and looking for the perfect' girl. We of course know that this isn't true. Also I feel that it may be unrealistic to wait around. What do you think? What are you beliefs in this area? And if you currently have a girlfriend/boyfriend how'd you do it lol?