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Originally Posted by Angela  What if you go straight to the horse's mouth -- "Look, K, what would it take to reassure you? I'm committed to having T here for the 2 weeks and I am a person of my word, so sending him away is not an option; what else could I do to help you feel good and secure?"
I'm always in favor of asking.  |
What a great idea!! Excellent. Why didn't I think of it?
Thank you so much Angela.
Of course sending T away is not an option. He's my friend, he's always welcome at my place. Plus I haven't seen him in half a year, I'm so happy to spend some time with him. And yes, I hug him, and I'll hug him in front of K too. There's nothing bad about that, I'm cuddly with my friends. That's irrevocable.
Usually I run away from jealous guys as fast as I can... but I'm committed to spend this life with K no matter what, that's irrevocable too
I'll tell him the latter in a more poetic way
and ask him what would help him feel loved and secure. Thanks Angela!