Yeah, that's what I mean about generosity. Jealousy is much more heart-pain-drama for the jealous person than it is for his partner.
What if you go straight to the horse's mouth -- "Look, K, what would it take to reassure you? I'm committed to having T here for the 2 weeks and I am a person of my word, so sending him away is not an option; what else could I do to help you feel good and secure?"
I'm always in favor of asking.
