CroMagna, you're awfully young still and such a set-in-stone plan as the one you outlined in your first post won't serve you. Things change, including both your situation in life and your mind. You should certainly pursue your goals by all means available to you, but don't write anything off yet. Relax your thinking a bit and start taking some concrete steps toward your objectives.
Why did you feel such pressure to have kids anyway? You've got at least 10-15 years left (given good health) before you really have to make that decision anyway. Let the issue go for now.
Finally, as far as personal development is concerned, kids can be a tremendous opportunity. Mine definitely has been.
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