Wow Jamie,that situation has to be tough! In that case i would definately create space,leave town,whatever you gotta do. Thats more like a case of self defense!
My situation isnt that bad,i'm pretty sure the problem is inside me more than being "caused" by them.
The hard part about creating space with family members is that when they are gone,they are gone for good and there is no fixing things. I just had a friend whose husband just died a few weeks ago,and her kids are 15 and 20. And i always think now,at least my dad is alive. But its still hard to deal with people,it makes you feel guilty cuz at least you HAVE them in your life,some people would give anything to have their family back.
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