Are you me??!! lol
I feel exactly the same. To deal with the second one I decided to work for myself so I could be my own boss. For the first one I suppose I just remember that no-one can read my mind so if I act confident thay won't know any different. I've actually gained a lot of real confidence by doing that over the years! Also remind yourself that everyone else (well mostly) is more bothered about themselves and how THEY are coming across. |