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Originally Posted by ABdude  One word, time.
You have a prime example of what a lot in the seduction community (whether you buy into that stuff or not), called oneitis. Almost every guy I know has, or has had a huge case of it, but the good news is that it does not last forever. In time your feelings for her will decline, and you will eventually meet a girl who is able to reciprocate the same feelings you have for her. Until then, best thing you can do is bide your time while going out to meet other girls. |
I feel better now getting this off my chest, i know that i will get over her in time and that it is down to me to make the most of my life but i would have preferred to do it with her.
Ive thought about it, she can still be a friend but i want her as more than that and i have messed it up. I'm sure that she wanted me, maybe i just had to convincer her that i was good enough, that feels cruel and i always felt guilty about the fact that she was with someone..... really my question is:
How should i have dealt with the situation better?