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Originally Posted by lightthecandle  hey everyone,
yes, i am hearing you. and i thank you from the bottom of my heart really. I know I have been posting on this forum repetitively and not seeming like i am gaining anything from it.
but the thing is..your advice truly does help. however, my problem is that the advice only gets me so far...like it will help me for a few hours in changing my belief system/mindset.. but then i start feeling hopeless again..that the positivity that i gained from here wears off. (im really sorry to say this, and i don't mean to be rude or mean in anyway) but how do i solve that issue..how do i take everyone's advice and have it help me thorughout the day for more effectiveness..but its so hard.
and about breakthroughs (thanks angela)...i'm constantly told that change takes time. and i hate that! i want to finally change..and change my life in an instant..but how do i go about doing THAT?
again, thank you all tremendously for your kind/real words. hopefully this time..i will truly listen instead of just "reading". |
This may sound backwards but I think change will come faster if you take baby steps and be realistic. List a few things you have the competence to do right in this moment.
It's fun fantasizing about instant change. But it's more realistic to start off doing 10 push-ups rather than 100 push-ups (as an example).