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Dannyboy1 · 07-14-2008, 08:13 PM

There are so many different situations. I guess with total strangers in the short term, appearance is more important because it's all they have to go on. However, once you're in a position to prove yourself. Who you are matters much more, unless the person has rules of appearance they've decided they need in you.

07-14-2008, 08:13 PM	#11 (permalink)
Dannyboy1 Banned Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: New York Posts: 1,246	There is no absolute answer to this question. There are so many different situations. I guess with total strangers in the short term, appearance is more important because it's all they have to go on. However, once you're in a position to prove yourself. Who you are matters much more, unless the person has rules of appearance they've decided they need in you.