If you tell a guy that you won't get intimate until marriage, he probably won't stick around. AFTER you have gotten over that little honeymoon period where you're both in lust, and you start to see each other as human beings, is when you would know if you had a potential life-partner on your hands.
I think in your scenario, the best you can hope for is making the guy wait and being ok with him seeing other women until that happens.
But... I could be wrong. Your life-partner could be right around the corner.
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