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Originally Posted by cylon  Three months is a long time to make a guy wait. |
Well its possible,my ex boyfriend waited over a year til i was ready to have sex. And yes,i dumped HIM,in the end.
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We aren't meant to think with our upstairs brain when it comes to the ladies. We're supposed to get together and reproduce. That's why we are attracted to each other in the first place!  |
Well i would rather reproduce with somebody who is preferrably my husband or AT LEAST someone that i know is capable of sticking around after we do the deed,and preferrably someone who would not run away if he found out i was pregnant. This is exactly why this world is overpopulated and full of deadbeat dads and abused kids and STD's and abortions...nobody thinks before they have sex anymore.
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Sex and intimacy are important to men (and women), just the way it is.
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I'm not saying it isnt important,hell,its practically what i think about the most! But that doesnt mean i'll do it with anybody that wants to.
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It's normal and natural to want to get close, early. That's what all those crazy chemicals going through your system are saying to do--get closer!
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But those chemicals are based on LUST,not love. When choosing a life partner,you can't let lust control your brain. You cant even think straight when you are under the influence of lust,it makes you a different person.
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Their upstairs brain is saying, "wow three months and this girl still doesn't want to be with me. She must not like me very much."
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what?! Is that really how you think in that situation? If a girl doesnt like a guy,she wont want to even see him at all! If a girl wants to get to know YOU as a person,before using your body,that means she likes you more than you like her,apparently.