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Originally Posted by JSB  Sorry if it sounds harsh, but she doesn't love you, and you can't convince her to love you --- it's not like winning a debate.
Instead of suffering over this girl, focus your energy on finding another girl you like who IS interested in you. You will feel better about yourself, and you will be able to enjoy a relationship. |
You're right, but what I feel is that If I had decided to leave that girl earlier, I would never have developed myself personally, professionally and every other way. Trying harder and harder is improving my qualities.
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Originally Posted by mahreenferdous I would recommend something like memory tagging. Remember a time when you really hated her or disliked her as a person. Tag that feeling or memory in your head to her. Think of just that feeling and nothing else when you think of her.
She is clearly not interested and you would find it easier to meet someone new. Also if you were meant to be it would have happened. |
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Originally Posted by blondeDO12 Hey dear, you are young and (here comes the cliche), there is alot out there for you, I promise. OK, props for being able to see past your second brain and falling in love with someone for the real them, but DO NOT LET HER BREAK YOU! It hurts, but if she loves someone else, she may inevitably be in the same situation you are, remember that. It hurts, I know, but eventually you will learn from this and in future relationships you'll be better. I'm a realist and logical for the most part, but things happen for a reason. YOU will change, YOUR priorities and wants and needs will change, YOU will fall in love with someone fit for you later...just let this one go. |
Thanks a lot for your inputs, they are helping me a lot. Infact I am reading it again and again and its helping me.
I think that I will stay detached and try to improve myself in every way I can and take it as a challenge which will help me grow. I'll keep trying all the different ways and improve myself furthur. (like my sense of humour, being more masculine etc)
Am I right?
Thanks a lot for advice.