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Originally Posted by ns123  I was in the same situation you are. My co-employees resented me for certain reasons, and I ended up leaving the company. It was my greatest "failure" to date, and was the result of a period of reflection and growth for me.
I wonder if I had cast love energy at them, it would have made a difference? In hindsight, I would like to think that it would have made thing positive, but I truly don't think that it would, even now. I had tried to extend a hand in friendship, civility, etc over and over and keep getting it bitten off. So I stopped extending a hand. And finally quit.
So, basically my question is, what do you do when you are faced with a group of people who refuse your love energy? I'm not talking about one or two individuals, I'm talking about a group of about 8 people.
Everyone else in the company had no problem with me and didn't even see my silent suffering. I even got awarded something because of my performance.
How do you deal with those who are determined to always dislike you, undermine you, no matter what? Are there people like this? Before I worked there, I would have said no. But it really did happen. Is it perception? Does everyone eventually come around? How can you tell? |
What I do to pay the bills is coach and counsel people in your situation. What I would tell someone who came to me with this problem is that, in this case anyway, it's all about you.
That is to say, if you are impeccable in what you do and who you are, if you are strong and confident in yourself, if you do not allow others thoughts and emotions to dictate your own, then it becomes a question of mind over matter; You don't mind, so they don't matter.
Just like in Spiritual matters, the energy and vibration you put out repels negative emotions and attracts positive ones. And those negative things that happen, happen
around you, not
to you.
Since you have no control over what others do, feel, say or think, the only thing you can do to improve your situation is to choose to be impeccable. Sending out love energy is just one way of helping yourself be impeccable.
I'll share also what I do when I'm faced with someone whom I having a hard time sending love to: I think of puppies. I know, I know.. that sounds corny, but I'm a dog person and I love puppies. When I think of puppies, I have an instant, heart-felt sense of
"awwwww...." As soon as I feel that, I can latch onto it and then it's just a matter of consciously inserting the person into that frame of reference.
For you, it may not be puppies. Maybe it's kittens or babies or flowers... it doesn't matter what it is, it just matters that you can focus your attention and energy on something that you love unquestioningly whatever that may be and then transfer that feeling to your "target".