It sounds like she has some real aversion to sex for some reason, and even some resentment. I don't think that this issue will be solved unless you get to the bottom of that.
I'm not sure when you'll see this, but I'll ask again in case you missed it before:
Is this a recent development or has it always been like this?
It really sounds like there's something there, much more than her just denying you out of coldness or to be contrary.
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