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Originally Posted by doriette  I'm sitting in my office, hyper-aware of other employees' resentment of me, when I checked my RSS feed and found this blog entry. |
I was in the same situation you are. My co-employees resented me for certain reasons, and I ended up leaving the company. It was my greatest "failure" to date, and was the result of a period of reflection and growth for me.
I wonder if I had cast love energy at them, it would have made a difference? In hindsight, I would like to think that it would have made thing positive, but I truly don't think that it would, even now. I had tried to extend a hand in friendship, civility, etc over and over and keep getting it bitten off. So I stopped extending a hand. And finally quit.
So, basically my question is, what do you do when you are faced with a group of people who refuse your love energy? I'm not talking about one or two individuals, I'm talking about a group of about 8 people.
Everyone else in the company had no problem with me and didn't even see my silent suffering. I even got awarded something because of my performance.
How do you deal with those who are determined to always dislike you, undermine you, no matter what? Are there people like this? Before I worked there, I would have said no. But it really did happen. Is it perception? Does everyone eventually come around? How can you tell?