Rose, when I was reading your earlier posts on harmony, the word that kept popping into my brain to describe what you were talking about was "flow"... essentially as in energy flow. The tango is all about flow, even arguments can flow as you described. Flow encompasses other things that you mentioned, like strength and freedom. I think you're a creator of and channel for flow!
Maybe it's just semantics, especially now since you've done some marvellous work on your beliefs and have quite possibly even transcended the need to capture the essence of what you're creating and initiating in the world! But I just thought I'd throw this into the mix anyway
