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Originally Posted by Radical  It's not so much that I care whether or not male/female interactions have an undertone of sexuality. It's just that I can't seem to enjoy them. Also, sometimes I feel resentment towards people who I perceive to be thinking about me in a sexual way. I think this is because I have never had any experiences of that kind before. And I feel like other people have had these experiences, have girlfriends/boyfriends etc, and so should not be thinking about me in a certain way - unless they want to ask me out. Does this make any sense? |
Yes Radical it makes sense. At the same time, I remember we seem to have touched on this issue too in another thread. If you feel the guys interacting with you keep thinking about sex with their girlfriends, and have that undertone in all their conversation with you, you're probably right, since they're reaching a young adult phase now with high libido, right?
But if you're assuming that's what the ladies are thinking too, then I beg to differ. Girls don't like to be seen as sex objects, and they find it offensive that guys will talk to them or approach them with only that objective in mind. So chances of them talking to you with that undertone shouldn't be a concern for you, because, assuming there really is (assuming), it would just be a fleeting thought that's all!
So ultimately, like what you've said yourself - you don't really care. I'm wondering are you using this as a legitimate reason not to talk to girls so you can conveniently continue to stay in your corner?
