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Old 07-08-2008, 06:20 AM   #1 (permalink)
mati
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Default lucky me, lucky you

I think luck doenst exist, its that something has to occure, wheather is good or bad to people, but good things comming to you, can be named "luck".

if we are talking about good thing comming to you as "luck"...think about someone that put all his effort in something, lefting everything for his goal, thinking about it, and doing everything he can to achieave it, and it is worthless, he end up with nothing, is he doing evrything he can?, or is just one face of the coin where he thinks the world runs
let me explain this, what if in order to achieve something like passing your tests, you only focus on study harder and effiently because is your ultimate goal and nothing and nobody will take you apart from it...
...and you fail those classes, you blame luck right?

what if I tell you that you didnt do your best?
you will fell that this has nothing about you, there are some luck involved and so on, but we are missing something here.
what if because of not being with your firends, you couldnt study with them and one of those friends knew someone that knows the right things to study, or you where so overwhelmed that didnt speak to the teacher and when you needed just a little help to pass the class, the teacher didnt helped you...

so life i more complex than doing the things the you think you can in order to achieve something, you have to be the best you can too, and worry about so much things to have the "luck" at your favor, or let things flow,but also worrying...this is not my striaght opinion but and idea... maybe incomplete.

Im in fact endind my exams and I did the same thing ..I study as hard asa I could and I fail one or maybe more classes, even if as I never done before I stop partying, doing the things that I like, make some bussines, etc..and my goal went for the toilet..its of to fell tireness, stress or even sad when you are soing something in order to get something, or before doing it, but when it worth it and you gets results, it all disapear and you fell proud abot yourself and hopefull, but when this doenst come, all those feelings get stuck in you, at least for some time, and that sucks... and I have being in that possition in all this semester because leving thins in order to get more from my studies I ended up with no achievements and with less activities done or enjoyed...

Im seeking for an answer now, thinking, possitively sometimes, thinkin that maybe next year I will know something realy special in my class, or not passing some class will made me think in something diferent leading me to do something in another direction, leading me to a mayor goal, etc...
tks for reading
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