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Originally Posted by 25AndJustBeginning  A little while ago I observed a girl (approx. 24 y/o) talking to 2 guys. It appeared completely casual and I don't doubt that it was.
It made me wonder that if I was her b/f (not the issue at hand) if I would view it differently. So I assumed that I was her b/f and instantly I viewed the situation differently- I started to get suspicious, insecure, and jealous.
This is a problem I've had in past relationships and I realize I need to get past it but I don't know how. Why do I get jealous over casual conversations between my g/f and another guy? How do I get past this? Has anyone else overcome this themselves?
Any help is appreciated. Thanx.  |
Well... if there is an insecurity where does it come from? Did you have a situation in your past where you were cheated on? What triggers those emotions? I find for myself that when there is a problem its because something happened in the past that has rooted itself there. When I react based on the situation its because I am letting my past guide my present actions. When I identify the past problem and where it came from I find I gain a freedom from it.
I hope this helps a bit.