Good advice in this thread.
I would also add that to become more talkative, you basically need to think out loud. Remove the filter between the thoughts in your heads and what you allow yourself to say.
By speaking without filtering yourself, you'll be far more talkative and others will appreciate your words more because you are being authentic. Give it a try.
Also, building social skill is something that happens naturally through practice and experience. Just consistently put yourself in situations where you are currently uncomfortable and over time you will find yourself more at ease in those situations.
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