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Fullcrum · 07-07-2008, 10:08 PM

Be comfortable in the silence; it's about as soulful as you can get. Just feel really good in your body and sit with no thoughts at all.

I'm serious. Try this.

You won't be getting in your own way, trying to qualify yourself, or trying to get the other person's approval; instead it's just the presence and the beingness in each of you communicating.

And the right words will come to you. If you listen to other people's conversations with the idea that you are "learning and assimilating the best characteristics from everyone around you", you will build your own individuality with your own tastes and viewpoints, and the words will flow like a neverending water fall.

Think Niagara Falls. Yeah, those are your words

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07-07-2008, 10:08 PM	#4 (permalink)
Fullcrum Family Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 1,094	Be comfortable in the silence; it's about as soulful as you can get. Just feel really good in your body and sit with no thoughts at all. I'm serious. Try this. You won't be getting in your own way, trying to qualify yourself, or trying to get the other person's approval; instead it's just the presence and the beingness in each of you communicating. And the right words will come to you. If you listen to other people's conversations with the idea that you are "learning and assimilating the best characteristics from everyone around you", you will build your own individuality with your own tastes and viewpoints, and the words will flow like a neverending water fall. Think Niagara Falls. Yeah, those are your words .